My ex-wife and I divorced a couple of years ago after 14 years of marriage. During our time together, I formed a strong bond with her daughter, who I’ve always considered my stepdaughter. However, our marriage ended after I cheated on her—a mistake I deeply regret to this day. I fully acknowledge the pain I caused and take complete responsibility for my actions.
After the divorce, I worried that my relationship with my stepdaughter would suffer. I was prepared for her to go no-contact with me, but to my surprise, it didn’t change our bond. She told me that my actions were “adult business” and that it didn’t erase the fact that I had been a father figure in her life for over a decade.
Last month, my stepdaughter shared the exciting news that she’s getting married next year. She asked me if I would walk her down the aisle, and I was incredibly honored. Still, I asked if her mom would be okay with it. She admitted her mom wasn’t happy about it and didn’t even want me at the wedding. Concerned about potential drama, I asked her if she was sure my presence wouldn’t cause any issues. She assured me that she didn’t care what anyone thought because she knew how important I was to her.
Humbled and emotional, I agreed to walk her down the aisle.
However, a few days later, my ex-wife called me, insisting that I shouldn’t attend the wedding and claiming that no one wanted me there. I told her not to make our daughter’s wedding about her personal grievances. I reminded her that the bride’s wishes are what truly matter, and since she wanted me there, I intended to honor her request. I also told my ex-wife that she couldn’t forbid me from attending the wedding just because I cheated on her.
So, AITAH?
